Excellent insights, George. I've written obits for both my husband's parents and his best friend. I've never thought about preparing one in advance, but it makes total sense. Did you know Obit writer's make almost 100k a year?

You're right. The focus should definitely be on their personality and life force. Last thoughts about our loved ones should be great memories most can relate to about the deceased. Even light hearted anecdotes work wonders.