I'd say explore every version of yourself. The 30's are a wonderful period to discover who you are and what you really want in life. No one gets to tell you how to live it.

Create the life you want. If it doesn't include the traditional institution of marriage and children, so be it. Do You. That's the beauty of adulting. Your choice.

I agree with Henery X too. Fill the void of what you don't see in terms of the information out there. Before someone else does.😉